I recently attended an information session explaining the PDA profile. Super informative and with two qualified Occupational Therapists hosting and taking questions at the end of the session.
A few points stood out for me:
When a child with PDA has a meltdown, consider it the same way you would an epileptic fit. There is very little you can do except – remove dangerous objects or objects that can be used to harm themselves or others.
Do not touch or talk to the child. Remain in view, calm, allowing the child to express their emotions in a safe way. Introduce a safe object, like a favourite stuffed toy, blanket, or drink.
The meltdown will de-escalate, and the child will transition into a deep state of shame. This is when you calmly begin to engage, gently ask what they need, stay at their side. Offer comfort and understanding, not rebuke.
My mind has shifted to see this advice for PDA profile autism as a critical tool to manage the meltdowns and to ensure minimal physical damage or violence.
It’s not always easy facing these interactions, and it can be difficult to remain calm. Remember it’s not personal, it’s not malicious, it’s your child’s nervous system being overwhelmed and being unable to regulate and control those responses.
